Out of all of the horrible things that I went through, I think that one of the worst was when I was falsely accused of being an unfit parent.   My ex-partner didn’t outright accuse me of abuse or neglect but strongly framed me as unstable and hard to live with.

Targeted parents are empathetic and good-hearted to a fault.  We know real love, real affection, and secure attachments.  Our love is patient and kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs (ok, well maybe just a few). Our love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails (1 Corinthians 13:4–8a).  These are personality traits that the world desperately needs more of, but the only ones who seem to notice our propensity to hold to our positive moral convictions is narcissists.

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ITV Breakfast show – Tommorow Parental/Grandparent Alienation

Just had telephone interview today by ITV Breakfast show to do article on PA.

This Morning News Desk

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I have put them in touch with Jane Jackson Bristol Grandparents Group as it is too late for me to fly out for tomorrow now, no flights. They have found someone from group who can get to London tomorrow. Does not matter who does it as long as we get the exposure. Looking forward to tomorrow’s programme.

The programme will go out  10.30 am tomorrow on ITV Breakfast Time



BBC Radio London: Denied access to grandchildren Lobby Day 31/01/17

A Lobby Day in parliament is taking place tomorrow (31st January) where campaigners are challenging the government to get more help for grandparents being denied access to their grandchildren.

We’re looking for grandparents who have been personally affected by this issue to talk to us on the BBC Radio London Breakfast Show tomorrow morning (31st January). If they wish to remain anonymous in order to tell their story, that can be arranged. It’d be a short phone interview, just telling your story.

If you’ve been affected by this issue, please get in touch. Thanks.


A voice for our grandchildren.

Jan 30th, 2017 –

Written by: Jane Jackson

Today we will be joining a group of grandparents from all over the UK to lobby our MPs’ at Westminster and to discuss the importance of the relationship between grandchildren and their grandparents.

We will discuss the need for government to remove the ‘right to apply for leave’  when applying for a Child Arrangement Order. At present grandparents have to apply for leave, (just another word for permission) to then apply to the court of a CMO.

Going to court has to be the very last resort, and although it is not something that ever BGSG advise we will and do of course support our grandparents who make that decision.

Those who are able to attend this event tomorrow are doing it for their grandchildren, nothing to do with grandparents rights, but about the rights and well-being of the children.

In recent reports on the happiness of children it clearly states that a very large number of children are unhappy because of bad family relationships.

In may well be that the adults will never see eye to eye, but they all have a responsibility for the happiness and well-being of our young people. Time to put the children first.

Settle our differences away from the children.

1 in 10 children also say that they have no one who cares about them, well I am here and I am going tomorrow to shout out very loud indeed.




Bull**** Lies and Crocodile Tears

Natural Born Liars

A insight to what goes on behind closed doors during Parental Alienation

A story based on true facts during a battle which has lasted over 27 years and continues up until this day.

These are not from memories 27 years later, the events were contemporaneously scripted at the time and have been stored for reference.

All names have been changed to protect the identity of the persons involved.

Kram collapsed on the kitchen floor, the garbled words spilling out of his mouth did not make any sense (no change there).

I called the locum doctor for a home visit and after a thorough examination he was admitted to hospital.

Kram wasted no time in telling his parents that he was suffering from a heart attack because I had been pushing him too hard to work and this was the consequence.

Every time I visited at the hospital he would be in tears and distressed and kept repeating over and over again that “he had a grain in his head and it felt like it was growing larger and larger until it would burst”.

I visited my local doctor in the village for reassurance about his condition. The doctor said he could not breach a patients confidentiality but he could confirm that his heart was perfectly healthy and he certainly had not had a heart attack!!

The only grain growing in his head was his own inflated ego, the best thing he could do was to go and join RADA– The Royal Academy of Dramatic Art.

Natural Born Lairs


The Positive Path

Today is My daughter’s 19th birthday. I haven’t seen her on her birthday since she turned 7 and Its been 6 years since we were in each other’s lives. So far today I haven’t …

Source: The Positive Path


Why the Child Protective Services Social Worker Isn’t Helping You

Can you trust a child protective services social worker to enter your home, or should you invoke your USA 4th Amendment right to privacy in your home when a government worker doesn’t have a warrant? You may think the social worker is friendly, trying to help, when they’re really trying to investigate and get information from you, to use against you in court.

Source: Why the Child Protective Services Social Worker Isn’t Helping You




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4 Brutally Honest Things Survivors Of Narcissistic Abuse Want To Say To Their Abusers

Whatever the root cause of their behavior, a narcissist will cause untold suffering to those they abuse. They are spirit d; they take an individual and control, confuse, and torment them wit…

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