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RECOVERY

What I have learnt from 30 years of Parental Alienation!

Good morning everyone wherever you are in the world, Parental Alienation has no boundaries or timescales.

Woke up in the early hours of the full moon thinking about this one! Just had to get up and get it down on paper.

You will never, ever change the ALIENATOR, it is top of their agenda to try and destroy you after walking away from the relationship. For having the strength that they do not possess to save yourself from a life of control and emotional abuse.

Don’t waste too many resources and energy trying to get them to understand what they are doing to their own children, grandchildren, they will never understand, they dont want to understand, the only person they are interested in is themselves. They have their own itinerary.

YOU are the one who is going to change, YES you.

If you are going to handle this with damage limitation you have to take a good hard look at what you are doing RIGHT NOW.

Is it working for you right now?

If not why not?

Then NOW is the time to do something POSITIVE

Something that will help you to cope

Something that will make you feel better

Do you want to learn more?

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Complex Trauma Post-traumatic Stress

PTSD and Parental Alienation

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RECOVERY

Linda Turner – Parental Alienation Recovery

Please let me introduce myself. My name is Linda Turner and I share a common theme with you. I am an Alienated Parent. Having suffered for over 30 years I am truly aware of the suffering and heartache this situation brings.

However; I was determined to overcome the pain that being an Alienated Parent brings, and so I studied diligently, passed all of my exams with distinction and became a Recovery Coach.

I now can offer professional counseling with real life experience.

I have run this http://parentalalienationpas.com and the Facebook sites, on a voluntary basis which offers help and advice to those in need. I am still going to offer this service but am now taking it a stage further.

I can offer you a unique therapy and counseling service, whether it be on a 1 to 1 basis, or in a group all carried out face to face online. I can offer you support on a regular basis.

I cannot guarantee that I can reconcile you with your child(ren) , but I can help you to understand yourself better and put you in a much happier place.

My fees are very reasonable, please see my payment page for more details.

If you would like to participate in an online group session the fee is just 12.00 pounds, 11.00 euros, or 16 US Dollars per month. For this you will get 1 hourly session per week plus an additional workbooks and a weekly podcast to listen to. All fees are payable in advance please.

I can offer my full support and help you to become far more tolerant with your situation. I have “been there” and recovered, so can you!

Linda – Always by your side.

If you would like to know how I can help you , please contact me

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RECOVERY

Typical Family-tree Symptoms of Psychological Wounds

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Alienated children Alienation Parental Alienation PA RECOVERY

When the voice in your head says NO you cant?

YES YOU CAN

Would you like to move forward with your life?

DO YOU WANT TO RECOVER FROM PARENTAL ALIENATION?

Do you want to stop being angry and reacting to the ALIENATOR?

I have helped many alienated parents on the road to recovery, if want to hear more please contact me Linda Turner – Always By Your Side

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Alienated children Alienation Parental Alienation PA

Behavioral traits of psychologically-wounded adults and children

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Alienated children Alienation Parental Alienation PA

Early-childhood abandonment

Adults who survived significant early-childhood abandonment, abuse, and neglect and inherited up to six psychological wounds.

Normal personalities are composed of three types semi-independent “subselves,” including a wise “true Self.”

If adults with psychological wounds dont take proactive steps to reduce recover, they’re often ruled by well-intentioned “false selves,” causing many personal problems – including unintentionally wounding young people in their care.

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Antisocial Personality Disorder Delusional Disorder DESTRUCTIVE PSYCHOLOGICAL DISORDER PERSONALITY DISORDERS

“Dissociative Identity Disorder” (DID) by the American Psychiatric Association

Research repeatedly finds that typical highly-dissociated (“fragmented”) people were subjected to extreme neglect, abuse, abandonment, or other trauma as young children. Their nurturance deprivations were profound. The great majority of us don’t have anywhere close to this degree of personality splitting – and do have some.

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Complex Trauma Post-traumatic Stress

Evolving values

Personality means “the evolving values, beliefs, traits, reflexes, talents, and limitations that make every person unique.”

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Alienated children Alienation Child abuse Child Maltreatment Child Protection

Psychological “wounds”

If young children dont get their developmental needs met, they automatically survive by forming a split personality. This causes several interrelated psychological “wounds”