In an interview with the New York Times, social psychologist Carol Tavris, who wrote the aptly-named book “Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me),” said that the problem comes when our sense of self is under attack. “Cognitive dissonance is what we feel when the self-concept — I’m smart, I’m kind, I’m convinced this belief is true — is threatened by evidence that we did something that wasn’t smart, that we did something that hurt another person, that the belief isn’t true.”
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