Q & A – I am being stopped and discouraged from reconnecting with my alienated parent?

If your alienating parents are actively discouraging or preventing you from reconnecting with your estranged parent, it can be an even more challenging situation. Here are some steps you can take:

1. Seek legal advice: If you feel that your alienating parents are preventing you from having a relationship with your estranged parent, it may be helpful to consult a family law attorney. They can advise you on your legal options and help you navigate the process of seeking visitation or custody rights.
2. Communicate your feelings: If you feel comfortable doing so, try to have an honest conversation with your alienating parents about how their behavior is affecting you. Let them know that you want to have a relationship with your estranged parent and that their actions are making it difficult for you.
3. Seek support from others: Talk to supportive family members, friends, or a therapist about your feelings and experiences. They can provide emotional support and help you develop coping strategies.
4. Try to maintain boundaries: If your alienating parents are making it difficult for you to reconnect with your estranged parent, it may be necessary to establish some boundaries. This can include limiting contact with them or setting clear expectations for how you want to be treated.

Remember that the process of reconnecting with an estranged parent can be difficult, especially when there are obstacles such as alienating parents. It’s important to take care of yourself and seek support from others as you navigate this process.