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Family Silence and Secrets

Silence and secrets can be common in dysfunctional families, and can contribute to a variety of negative outcomes, including feelings of isolation, mistrust, and shame. Some common reasons why families may keep secrets or maintain silence include:

  1. Fear of judgment: Family members may be afraid of being judged or criticized by others, and may keep secrets to avoid negative reactions.
  2. Fear of conflict: Silence may be used as a way to avoid conflict or confrontation, or to maintain a sense of false harmony within the family.
  3. Shame and embarrassment: Secrets may be kept to avoid feelings of shame or embarrassment, particularly around sensitive topics such as addiction, mental illness, or abuse.
  4. Loyalty and protection: Family members may keep secrets to protect each other or maintain a sense of loyalty, even when doing so is not in their own best interests.

Breaking the cycle of silence and secrets in dysfunctional families can be a difficult process, but it is possible. It may require opening up lines of communication, seeking professional help, and practicing empathy and understanding towards each other. Some strategies for breaking the cycle may include setting clear boundaries around what is and is not acceptable in terms of communication, practicing active listening and honest expression of thoughts and feelings, and working together to address underlying issues and conflicts. It’s important for family members to remember that breaking the cycle of silence and secrets can be a gradual process, and may require patience and persistence.

 © Linda C J Turner

By Linda C J Turner

Coaching and Therapy
Currently studying Psychotherapy , Cognitive psychology, Hypnotherapy.
Qualified NLP, EMDR and CBT therapist.
REIKI Master.
I believe in truth, honesty and integrity! ≧◔◡◔≦

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