Q & A – What is a dysfunctional family?

Dysfunctional families are those that exhibit patterns of behavior that are unhealthy or disruptive to the well-being of the individuals involved. While the specific traits of a dysfunctional family may vary depending on the family’s unique circumstances, there are several common defining characteristics:

  1. Poor Communication: A lack of open, honest communication between family members, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts.
  2. Inadequate emotional support: Family members who do not offer adequate emotional support, or who are critical or judgmental of one another.
  3. Neglect or abuse: Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse or neglect, either by family members or within the family system.
  4. Addiction: The presence of substance abuse or other addictive behaviors within the family.
  5. Enmeshment or disengagement: Family members who are overly involved in each other’s lives, leading to a lack of individual autonomy, or those who are emotionally distant and disconnected from each other.
  6. Blaming and shaming: A tendency to blame or shame others for problems or mistakes, rather than taking responsibility for one’s actions.
  7. Control and manipulation: A family system that is marked by control and manipulation, with certain members exerting undue influence or power over others.
  8. Lack of boundaries: A family that does not have clear or healthy boundaries, with members crossing each other’s personal or emotional boundaries.

It’s important to note that dysfunctional families can have a negative impact on the mental health and well-being of their members. If you are a part of a dysfunctional family, seeking the help of a therapist or counselor can provide support and guidance in navigating these challenges.

 © Linda C J Turner

By Linda C J Turner

Coaching and Therapy
Currently studying Psychotherapy , Cognitive psychology, Hypnotherapy.
Qualified NLP, EMDR and CBT therapist.
REIKI Master.
I believe in truth, honesty and integrity! ≧◔◡◔≦

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