Q & A – What is love bombing?

Love bombing is a manipulative tactic commonly used by narcissists to gain control and power over their victims. It involves excessive and overwhelming displays of affection, attention, and flattery in the early stages of a relationship. The goal is to create a strong emotional bond and dependence on the part of the victim, making it easier for the narcissist to manipulate and control them.

Love bombing can involve extravagant gestures, such as buying expensive gifts, planning extravagant dates, and constantly showering the victim with compliments and attention. However, it’s important to remember that these displays of affection are not genuine expressions of love but rather calculated attempts to manipulate and control the victim.

If you suspect that you are being love bombed by a narcissist, it’s important to remain objective and assess their behavior and actions. Look for consistency in their words and actions, and pay attention to any red flags or warning signs. Trust your instincts and seek support from trusted friends or family members.

It’s important to set boundaries and protect yourself from the manipulative tactics of a narcissist. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and it’s important to prioritize your own well-being and safety in any relationship. Seeking professional help from a therapist or counselor can also be an important step in healing from the effects of narcissistic abuse.