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Control freaks and bullies

Control freaks and bullies are individuals who exert power and control over others in various ways. While they share some characteristics, there are important distinctions between the two.

A control freak is someone who has an excessive need for control and often feels anxious or uncomfortable when they are not in control of a situation or other people. They typically have a strong desire for things to be done their way and find it challenging to delegate tasks or accept alternative viewpoints. Control freaks may try to micromanage and manipulate others to ensure their desired outcomes are achieved. They often have a fear of failure, which drives their need for control.

On the other hand, bullies are individuals who engage in aggressive, abusive, or manipulative behavior to intimidate, dominate, or harm others. They seek power and control over their targets through physical, verbal, or emotional abuse. Bullies often have a desire to assert their dominance and may target individuals they perceive as weaker or vulnerable. Their behavior is driven by a need to feel superior or gain satisfaction from causing harm to others.

It’s important to note that control freaks and bullies can overlap in behavior, as some control freaks may resort to bullying tactics to maintain control. However, not all control freaks are bullies, and not all bullies are control freaks. The motivations and methods employed by each can vary.

Dealing with control freaks and bullies can be challenging, but it’s important to establish boundaries and assert yourself. If you’re facing such individuals, consider the following steps:

  1. Recognize the behavior: Acknowledge that the person’s actions are not acceptable and understand the impact it has on you.
  2. Set boundaries: Clearly communicate your boundaries and assert your right to be treated with respect. Let them know their behavior is unacceptable.
  3. Seek support: Talk to someone you trust, such as a friend, family member, or colleague, about the situation. They can provide advice, perspective, and emotional support.
  4. Document incidents: Keep a record of any incidents, including dates, times, locations, and descriptions. This documentation can be useful if you need to report the behavior or seek assistance later.
  5. Address the issue: If appropriate, confront the control freak or bully calmly and assertively. Use “I” statements to express how their behavior is affecting you and ask them to stop. However, be cautious if you believe confrontation may escalate the situation further.
  6. Report the behavior: If the control freak or bully’s actions persist or worsen, report the situation to the appropriate authority figure, such as a supervisor, human resources department, or school counselor. Provide the documented incidents as evidence.

Remember, your safety and well-being are paramount. If you feel threatened or unsafe, remove yourself from the situation and seek professional help or guidance from relevant authorities.

 © Linda C J Turner

By Linda C J Turner

Coaching and Therapy
Currently studying Psychotherapy , Cognitive psychology, Hypnotherapy.
Qualified NLP, EMDR and CBT therapist.
REIKI Master.
I believe in truth, honesty and integrity! ≧◔◡◔≦

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