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That endless search for real support and understanding, with all its dead ends and wrong turns and disappointments, is why I do the work I do now.

I don’t want people coming into this world of Parental Alienation to find the no mans land I found.

I started this work in 2000, and I stay in this work, because how we deal with and talk about parental alienation matters. How we talk about love matters.

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Q & A – What is the Dark Triad?

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The Dark Triad refers to three distinct personality traits: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. These traits are characterized by a combination of manipulative, self-centered, and callous behaviors. Here’s a brief overview of each component:

  1. Narcissism: Narcissism involves an inflated sense of self-importance and a preoccupation with oneself. Individuals high in narcissism have an excessive need for admiration, lack empathy for others, and often exploit or manipulate others to achieve their goals. They tend to have a grandiose self-image, seeking constant attention and recognition.
  2. Machiavellianism: Machiavellianism is named after the political philosopher Niccolò Machiavelli and refers to the tendency to be manipulative and cunning in interpersonal relationships. Individuals high in Machiavellianism are strategic and calculating, using deceptive tactics to advance their own interests. They are willing to exploit and manipulate others without guilt or remorse.
  3. Psychopathy: Psychopathy is characterized by a lack of empathy and remorse, shallow emotions, and a disregard for social norms and moral values. Individuals high in psychopathy tend to be impulsive, thrill-seeking, and prone to antisocial behaviors. They often exhibit superficial charm and are skilled at manipulating others for personal gain.

It’s important to note that the Dark Triad traits exist on a spectrum, and individuals may possess varying degrees of these traits. While some people with these traits may engage in harmful or manipulative behaviors, not all individuals with high levels of Dark Triad traits are necessarily harmful or abusive. Additionally, it’s worth mentioning that the Dark Triad traits are not officially recognized disorders in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), but rather concepts used in psychology to describe certain patterns of behavior.

 © Linda C J Turner

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When someone is trying to destroy your website/business/reputation!!

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If someone is trying to destroy your website business reputation, there are several steps you can take to protect your online presence and minimize the damage. Here are some suggestions:

  1. Monitor your online presence: Regularly monitor your website and social media accounts for any negative reviews, comments, or feedback. Use online reputation management tools to stay up-to-date with what people are saying about your business online.
  2. Respond promptly and professionally: If you do encounter negative comments or reviews, respond promptly and professionally. Be respectful and acknowledge the person’s concerns. Offer to address any issues and work towards a resolution.
  3. Take legal action: If the person is making false statements about your business that are damaging your reputation, you may want to consider taking legal action. Consult with a lawyer who specializes in online defamation and take appropriate legal steps to protect your business.
  4. Build positive reviews and content: One of the best ways to combat negative reviews is to build up positive content and reviews about your business. Encourage satisfied customers to leave positive reviews and testimonials on your website and social media accounts.
  5. Stay active on social media: Use social media to engage with your customers and build relationships. This can help you to build a loyal following and create positive buzz about your business.

Remember that protecting your online reputation is an ongoing process. By staying vigilant, responding appropriately to negative feedback, and focusing on building positive relationships with your customers, you can help to protect your business from online attacks and maintain a positive online presence.

Yes I have been there before, and I suspect it is the same person using their flying monkeys to do their dirty work!

It appears the more successful I become the harder they try!

 © Linda C J Turner – Always By Your Side

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Dont get distracted by a psychopath

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  1. Stay aware: If you suspect someone may be attempting to manipulate or distract you, try to stay aware of their behavior and the situation at hand. Pay attention to any patterns or inconsistencies in their actions or words.
  2. Stay focused on your goals: Keep your focus on your goals and priorities, and don’t let anyone else’s behavior distract you from achieving them. Remember what’s important to you and stay motivated to pursue your objectives.
  3. Set boundaries: It’s important to set clear boundaries in any relationship, whether personal or professional. If someone is attempting to distract or manipulate you, be clear about what behaviors are unacceptable and communicate those boundaries firmly.
  4. Seek support: If you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure about how to handle a difficult situation, seek support from trusted friends, family, or professionals. Talking to others can help you gain perspective and feel more confident in your ability to handle challenging situations.

Remember that everyone deserves respect and consideration, but it’s also important to protect your own well-being and focus on your goals. If you’re concerned about someone’s behavior, don’t hesitate to seek help and support from others.

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Q & A – What are the different levels of PA?

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The three levels of PAS are mild, moderate, and severe. Differential diagnosis is the process of distinguishing one disorder from another based on the presenting symptoms. The differential diagnosis for each level of PAS is as follows:

  1. Mild PAS: In mild cases, the child may show some reluctance or resistance to spending time with the targeted parent. However, the child’s behavior is not severe enough to interfere with the relationship. The following conditions may be considered in the differential diagnosis:
  • Normal developmental stages: Children may go through phases where they prefer one parent over the other, especially during the early stages of divorce or separation.
  • Anxiety or depression: Children with anxiety or depression may show some avoidance behavior, which may be misinterpreted as alienation.
  • Parent-child conflict: Children may resist spending time with a parent with whom they have had recent conflict.
  1. Moderate PAS: In moderate cases, the child’s behavior is more severe and may start to interfere with the targeted parent’s relationship with the child. The following conditions may be considered in the differential diagnosis:
  • Attachment disorder: Children with attachment disorders may show a lack of interest in forming relationships with others, including parents.
  • Personality disorders: Personality disorders in the alienating parent or child may contribute to the child’s rejection of the targeted parent.
  • Child abuse: In some cases, allegations of abuse may be made against the targeted parent as a means of justifying the child’s rejection.
  1. Severe PAS: In severe cases, the child’s rejection of the targeted parent is absolute, and the child may engage in extreme behaviors to avoid contact with the parent. The following conditions may be considered in the differential diagnosis:
  • Cult involvement: Children who have been indoctrinated into a cult may show similar behaviors to those with severe PAS, including absolute rejection of the targeted parent.
  • Parental kidnapping: In some cases, the alienating parent may abduct the child to prevent contact with the targeted parent.
  • Psychosis: In rare cases, severe mental illness such as psychosis may cause the child to reject the targeted parent.

It is essential to conduct a thorough evaluation to differentiate between these conditions and PAS, and to develop an appropriate treatment plan for each case. A trained mental health professional with experience in family therapy can assist in the differential diagnosis and treatment of PAS.

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Q & A – Tell me more about “perspecticide”

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Perspecticide is a term that was coined by Evan Stark to describe a form of psychological abuse that is often used in coercive control relationships. The term refers to the ways in which an abuser systematically controls and distorts a victim’s sense of reality, causing them to lose their own perspective and sense of self.

In a relationship characterized by perspecticide, the abuser may use a variety of tactics to control and manipulate the victim’s perceptions and beliefs. These may include:

  • Gaslighting: A form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser causes the victim to doubt their own memories, perceptions, and sanity.
  • Isolation: The abuser may isolate the victim from friends and family, and limit their access to information and outside perspectives.
  • Control of information: The abuser may control the information that the victim receives, and present a distorted or incomplete picture of reality.
  • Blame-shifting: The abuser may blame the victim for problems in the relationship or in their own life, causing the victim to question their own actions and beliefs.
  • Denial and minimization: The abuser may deny or minimize the abuse, making it difficult for the victim to recognize and address the problem.

Over time, the cumulative effect of these tactics can cause the victim to feel confused, anxious, and uncertain about their own perceptions and beliefs. This can result in a loss of self-esteem, a diminished sense of autonomy, and a greater dependence on the abuser.

It’s important to note that perspecticide is not limited to romantic relationships, and can occur in any situation where one person has a significant power imbalance over another. Perspecticide can have serious long-term effects on a victim’s mental health and well-being, and it’s important for anyone who is experiencing this type of abuse to seek help from a qualified mental health professional.

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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy LINDA C J TURNER Q & A with #LindaCJTurner THERAPY

Q & A – What types of therapy are available for addiction?

Here are some common types of therapy used to treat addiction:

  1. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT is a type of therapy that focuses on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. It is often used to treat addiction by helping individuals to identify and change the thoughts and behaviors that contribute to their substance use.
  2. Motivational interviewing: Motivational interviewing is a type of therapy that helps individuals to identify and work through their ambivalence about changing their behavior. It can be helpful for individuals who are not yet sure that they want to stop using drugs or alcohol.
  3. Contingency management: Contingency management is a type of therapy that uses positive reinforcement to encourage individuals to stop using drugs or alcohol. It involves providing rewards or incentives for achieving certain milestones, such as attending therapy sessions or passing drug tests.
  4. 12-step facilitation therapy: 12-step facilitation therapy is a type of therapy that is based on the principles of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and other 12-step programs. It involves helping individuals to understand and work through the 12 steps of AA or a similar program.
  5. Family therapy: Family therapy is a type of therapy that involves working with the entire family to address issues that may be contributing to addiction. It can be helpful for improving communication and reducing stress within the family.
  6. Group therapy: Group therapy involves working with a group of individuals who share similar concerns or challenges. It can be helpful for addiction by providing a sense of community and support, as well as opportunities for learning new coping skills.
  7. Holistic therapies: Holistic therapies, such as yoga, meditation, and acupuncture, can be helpful for addiction by promoting relaxation, reducing stress, and improving overall well-being.

It’s important to note that there are many different types of therapy available, and what works best for one person may not work as well for another. It’s always a good idea to consult with a mental health professional to determine what type of therapy is most appropriate for your individual needs and circumstances.

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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy EMDR THERAPY

Q & A – What are the different types of therapy?

Here are some common types of therapy and what they are used for:

  1. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT is a type of therapy that focuses on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. It is commonly used to treat anxiety disorders, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and other mental health conditions.
  2. Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT): DBT is a type of therapy that combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness practices. It is often used to treat borderline personality disorder (BPD), as well as other conditions such as depression and anxiety.
  3. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR): EMDR is a type of therapy that can be helpful for individuals who have experienced trauma. It involves the use of eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation to help the person process traumatic memories and emotions.
  4. Family therapy: Family therapy is a type of therapy that involves working with the entire family to address issues that may be impacting family dynamics. It can be helpful for a wide range of issues, including communication problems, conflict, and mental health conditions.
  5. Interpersonal therapy (IPT): IPT is a type of therapy that focuses on improving interpersonal relationships and communication skills. It is often used to treat depression, anxiety, and other mental health conditions.
  6. Mindfulness-based therapies: Mindfulness-based therapies, such as mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) or mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT), involve learning mindfulness techniques to help regulate emotions, reduce stress, and increase awareness of the present moment. These therapies can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and PTSD.
  7. Psychodynamic therapy: Psychodynamic therapy focuses on exploring unconscious patterns and beliefs that may be contributing to emotional difficulties. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and personality disorders.
  8. Schema therapy: Schema therapy is a type of therapy that focuses on identifying and changing deeply ingrained, negative patterns of thinking and behavior. It is often used to treat personality disorders, such as borderline personality disorder.
  9. Solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT): SFBT is a type of therapy that focuses on identifying and building on the client’s strengths and resources to help them achieve their goals. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, as well as for individuals who are seeking personal growth and development.
  1. Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT): ACT is a type of therapy that focuses on helping individuals to accept difficult thoughts and feelings, and to commit to behaviors that align with their values. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and chronic pain.
  2. Art therapy: Art therapy involves using art materials and creative expression as a way to promote healing and self-discovery. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including trauma, depression, and anxiety.
  3. Dance/movement therapy: Dance/movement therapy involves using movement and dance as a way to promote emotional, cognitive, and physical integration. It can be helpful for individuals with a wide range of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and trauma.
  4. Equine-assisted therapy: Equine-assisted therapy involves working with horses as a way to promote emotional, cognitive, and behavioral healing. It can be helpful for individuals with a wide range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and PTSD.
  5. Group therapy: Group therapy involves working with a group of individuals who share similar concerns or challenges. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and addiction.
  6. Narrative therapy: Narrative therapy involves exploring and reshaping the stories that individuals tell about themselves and their experiences. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and trauma.

Again, it’s important to note that there are many different types of therapy available, and what works best for one person may not work as well for another. It’s always a good idea to consult with a mental health professional to determine what type of therapy is most appropriate for your individual needs and circumstances.

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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy EMDR LINDA C J TURNER Q & A with #LindaCJTurner THERAPY

Q & A – What type of therapy does a GWC need?

Recovering from parental alienation as a grown adult child can be a complex and challenging process. The type of therapy that is most appropriate will depend on the individual needs and circumstances of the person.

Here are some types of therapy that may be beneficial for an adult child recovering from parental alienation:

  1. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT is a type of therapy that focuses on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. It can help an adult child recovering from parental alienation to identify and challenge negative beliefs about themselves, their parents, and their relationships, and to develop healthy coping skills.
  2. Family therapy: Family therapy can be particularly helpful for an adult child recovering from parental alienation, as it can provide a safe and neutral space for the family to explore and address the underlying issues that led to the alienation. Family therapy can also help to rebuild trust and repair damaged relationships.
  3. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR): EMDR is a type of therapy that can be helpful for individuals who have experienced trauma. It involves the use of eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation to help the person process traumatic memories and emotions.
  4. Psychodynamic therapy: Psychodynamic therapy focuses on exploring unconscious patterns and beliefs that may be contributing to emotional difficulties. It can help an adult child recovering from parental alienation to gain insight into the root causes of their feelings and behaviors.
  5. Mindfulness-based therapies: Mindfulness-based therapies, such as mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) or mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT), can be helpful for individuals recovering from trauma. These therapies involve learning mindfulness techniques to help regulate emotions, reduce stress, and increase awareness of the present moment.

Ultimately, the best type of therapy for an adult child recovering from parental alienation will depend on their individual needs and preferences. It may be helpful to work with a therapist who has experience in working with individuals who have experienced parental alienation and who can provide a safe and supportive environment for the healing process.

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Cognitive Behavioral Therapy LINDA C J TURNER Q & A with #LindaCJTurner THERAPY

Q & A – Is grief therapy suitable for an alienated child?

Grief therapy may be suitable for an alienated child, depending on the specific circumstances and the child’s individual needs. Grief therapy can help children process their feelings of loss and sadness, which are often common in cases of parental alienation.

However, it’s important to keep in mind that grief therapy alone may not be enough to address the complex emotional and psychological issues that can arise from parental alienation. Children who have been alienated from a parent may also experience feelings of anger, confusion, and guilt, which can require additional therapeutic support.

It may be helpful for an alienated child to work with a therapist who has experience in both grief therapy and family therapy. This can help the child process their grief while also addressing the broader family dynamics that may be contributing to their feelings of alienation.

Ultimately, the most important thing is to find a therapist who is experienced in working with children who have experienced parental alienation and who can provide a safe and supportive environment for the child to explore their feelings and work through their trauma.