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LINDA C J TURNER PARENTAL ALIENATION

Glossary of PA

Here are some commonly used terms in the context of Parental Alienation:

  1. Parental Alienation: A phenomenon where one parent deliberately or unconsciously turns their child against the other parent.
  2. Alienating Parent: The parent who engages in behaviors that alienate the child from the other parent.
  3. Targeted Parent: The parent who is the subject of the alienation campaign and is being alienated from their child.
  4. Gatekeeping: The act of one parent trying to restrict or control the other parent’s access to the child.
  5. Brainwashing: The process by which the alienating parent manipulates and indoctrinates the child against the targeted parent.
  6. Enmeshment: An unhealthy emotional bond between the alienating parent and the child that excludes the other parent.
  7. Triangulation: The alienating parent uses the child to communicate with the targeted parent, creating tension and conflict.
  8. PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome): A controversial term used to describe a cluster of symptoms exhibited by a child who has been alienated from a parent.
  9. Gaslighting: The alienating parent distorts or denies the targeted parent’s reality to make them feel crazy or unstable.
  10. Coercive Control: The alienating parent uses tactics such as intimidation, isolation, and financial control to dominate and manipulate the child and the targeted parent.
  1. Flying Monkeys: People who the alienating parent enlists to assist them in their campaign to alienate the child from the targeted parent.
  2. Parentectomy: A term used to describe the extreme form of parental alienation where the child has completely cut off contact with the targeted parent.
  3. Parental Gatekeeping: The positive or negative influence one parent has over the child’s relationship with the other parent.
  4. Shared Parenting: A parenting arrangement where both parents share the responsibility and decision-making for their child.
  5. Reunification Therapy: A therapeutic process designed to help a child and targeted parent rebuild their relationship after parental alienation.
  6. High-Conflict Divorce: A divorce where there is a high level of conflict between the parents, which can increase the likelihood of parental alienation.
  7. Parallel Parenting: A parenting approach where each parent has their own separate rules and routines for their time with the child, minimizing conflict and contact.
  8. Custodial Interference: The intentional or unintentional interference with the other parent’s custodial rights, which can lead to legal consequences.
  9. Parental Abduction: When one parent takes a child without the other parent’s permission or against a court order, which is illegal.
  10. Parental Alienation Awareness: A movement to raise awareness about the damaging effects of parental alienation and promote solutions to prevent it.

 © Linda C J Turner

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Pathological Lying PERSONALITY DISORDERS

Lying and Brain Structure

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Lying is a complex behavior that involves various cognitive and neural processes. Neuroimaging studies have provided insights into the brain regions that are involved in lying.

The prefrontal cortex (PFC) is the part of the brain that is involved in decision-making, impulse control, and social behavior, and it plays a crucial role in lying. In particular, the dorsolateral prefrontal cortex (dlPFC) is involved in the cognitive processes necessary for deception, such as planning and inhibiting truthful responses. The ventromedial prefrontal cortex (vmPFC) is involved in emotional processing and may modulate the cognitive processes involved in deception.

Other brain regions that have been implicated in lying include the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC), which is involved in monitoring and detecting conflicts between thoughts and actions, and the insula, which is involved in emotional processing and bodily awareness.

The amygdala, which is involved in emotional processing and fear, may also play a role in lying, particularly in the suppression of emotional responses that might give away the lie.

Overall, lying is a complex behavior that involves multiple cognitive and neural processes, and our understanding of the neural mechanisms underlying lying is still evolving.

© Linda C J Turner

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When someone is trying to destroy your website/business/reputation!!

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If someone is trying to destroy your website business reputation, there are several steps you can take to protect your online presence and minimize the damage. Here are some suggestions:

  1. Monitor your online presence: Regularly monitor your website and social media accounts for any negative reviews, comments, or feedback. Use online reputation management tools to stay up-to-date with what people are saying about your business online.
  2. Respond promptly and professionally: If you do encounter negative comments or reviews, respond promptly and professionally. Be respectful and acknowledge the person’s concerns. Offer to address any issues and work towards a resolution.
  3. Take legal action: If the person is making false statements about your business that are damaging your reputation, you may want to consider taking legal action. Consult with a lawyer who specializes in online defamation and take appropriate legal steps to protect your business.
  4. Build positive reviews and content: One of the best ways to combat negative reviews is to build up positive content and reviews about your business. Encourage satisfied customers to leave positive reviews and testimonials on your website and social media accounts.
  5. Stay active on social media: Use social media to engage with your customers and build relationships. This can help you to build a loyal following and create positive buzz about your business.

Remember that protecting your online reputation is an ongoing process. By staying vigilant, responding appropriately to negative feedback, and focusing on building positive relationships with your customers, you can help to protect your business from online attacks and maintain a positive online presence.

Yes I have been there before, and I suspect it is the same person using their flying monkeys to do their dirty work!

It appears the more successful I become the harder they try!

 © Linda C J Turner – Always By Your Side

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Dont get distracted by a psychopath

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  1. Stay aware: If you suspect someone may be attempting to manipulate or distract you, try to stay aware of their behavior and the situation at hand. Pay attention to any patterns or inconsistencies in their actions or words.
  2. Stay focused on your goals: Keep your focus on your goals and priorities, and don’t let anyone else’s behavior distract you from achieving them. Remember what’s important to you and stay motivated to pursue your objectives.
  3. Set boundaries: It’s important to set clear boundaries in any relationship, whether personal or professional. If someone is attempting to distract or manipulate you, be clear about what behaviors are unacceptable and communicate those boundaries firmly.
  4. Seek support: If you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure about how to handle a difficult situation, seek support from trusted friends, family, or professionals. Talking to others can help you gain perspective and feel more confident in your ability to handle challenging situations.

Remember that everyone deserves respect and consideration, but it’s also important to protect your own well-being and focus on your goals. If you’re concerned about someone’s behavior, don’t hesitate to seek help and support from others.

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Q & A – What are the different levels of PA?

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The three levels of PAS are mild, moderate, and severe. Differential diagnosis is the process of distinguishing one disorder from another based on the presenting symptoms. The differential diagnosis for each level of PAS is as follows:

  1. Mild PAS: In mild cases, the child may show some reluctance or resistance to spending time with the targeted parent. However, the child’s behavior is not severe enough to interfere with the relationship. The following conditions may be considered in the differential diagnosis:
  • Normal developmental stages: Children may go through phases where they prefer one parent over the other, especially during the early stages of divorce or separation.
  • Anxiety or depression: Children with anxiety or depression may show some avoidance behavior, which may be misinterpreted as alienation.
  • Parent-child conflict: Children may resist spending time with a parent with whom they have had recent conflict.
  1. Moderate PAS: In moderate cases, the child’s behavior is more severe and may start to interfere with the targeted parent’s relationship with the child. The following conditions may be considered in the differential diagnosis:
  • Attachment disorder: Children with attachment disorders may show a lack of interest in forming relationships with others, including parents.
  • Personality disorders: Personality disorders in the alienating parent or child may contribute to the child’s rejection of the targeted parent.
  • Child abuse: In some cases, allegations of abuse may be made against the targeted parent as a means of justifying the child’s rejection.
  1. Severe PAS: In severe cases, the child’s rejection of the targeted parent is absolute, and the child may engage in extreme behaviors to avoid contact with the parent. The following conditions may be considered in the differential diagnosis:
  • Cult involvement: Children who have been indoctrinated into a cult may show similar behaviors to those with severe PAS, including absolute rejection of the targeted parent.
  • Parental kidnapping: In some cases, the alienating parent may abduct the child to prevent contact with the targeted parent.
  • Psychosis: In rare cases, severe mental illness such as psychosis may cause the child to reject the targeted parent.

It is essential to conduct a thorough evaluation to differentiate between these conditions and PAS, and to develop an appropriate treatment plan for each case. A trained mental health professional with experience in family therapy can assist in the differential diagnosis and treatment of PAS.

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Q & A – Tell me more about “perspecticide”

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Perspecticide is a term that was coined by Evan Stark to describe a form of psychological abuse that is often used in coercive control relationships. The term refers to the ways in which an abuser systematically controls and distorts a victim’s sense of reality, causing them to lose their own perspective and sense of self.

In a relationship characterized by perspecticide, the abuser may use a variety of tactics to control and manipulate the victim’s perceptions and beliefs. These may include:

  • Gaslighting: A form of psychological manipulation in which the abuser causes the victim to doubt their own memories, perceptions, and sanity.
  • Isolation: The abuser may isolate the victim from friends and family, and limit their access to information and outside perspectives.
  • Control of information: The abuser may control the information that the victim receives, and present a distorted or incomplete picture of reality.
  • Blame-shifting: The abuser may blame the victim for problems in the relationship or in their own life, causing the victim to question their own actions and beliefs.
  • Denial and minimization: The abuser may deny or minimize the abuse, making it difficult for the victim to recognize and address the problem.

Over time, the cumulative effect of these tactics can cause the victim to feel confused, anxious, and uncertain about their own perceptions and beliefs. This can result in a loss of self-esteem, a diminished sense of autonomy, and a greater dependence on the abuser.

It’s important to note that perspecticide is not limited to romantic relationships, and can occur in any situation where one person has a significant power imbalance over another. Perspecticide can have serious long-term effects on a victim’s mental health and well-being, and it’s important for anyone who is experiencing this type of abuse to seek help from a qualified mental health professional.

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Q & A – What types of therapy are available for addiction?

Here are some common types of therapy used to treat addiction:

  1. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT is a type of therapy that focuses on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. It is often used to treat addiction by helping individuals to identify and change the thoughts and behaviors that contribute to their substance use.
  2. Motivational interviewing: Motivational interviewing is a type of therapy that helps individuals to identify and work through their ambivalence about changing their behavior. It can be helpful for individuals who are not yet sure that they want to stop using drugs or alcohol.
  3. Contingency management: Contingency management is a type of therapy that uses positive reinforcement to encourage individuals to stop using drugs or alcohol. It involves providing rewards or incentives for achieving certain milestones, such as attending therapy sessions or passing drug tests.
  4. 12-step facilitation therapy: 12-step facilitation therapy is a type of therapy that is based on the principles of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and other 12-step programs. It involves helping individuals to understand and work through the 12 steps of AA or a similar program.
  5. Family therapy: Family therapy is a type of therapy that involves working with the entire family to address issues that may be contributing to addiction. It can be helpful for improving communication and reducing stress within the family.
  6. Group therapy: Group therapy involves working with a group of individuals who share similar concerns or challenges. It can be helpful for addiction by providing a sense of community and support, as well as opportunities for learning new coping skills.
  7. Holistic therapies: Holistic therapies, such as yoga, meditation, and acupuncture, can be helpful for addiction by promoting relaxation, reducing stress, and improving overall well-being.

It’s important to note that there are many different types of therapy available, and what works best for one person may not work as well for another. It’s always a good idea to consult with a mental health professional to determine what type of therapy is most appropriate for your individual needs and circumstances.

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Q & A – What are the different types of therapy?

Here are some common types of therapy and what they are used for:

  1. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT is a type of therapy that focuses on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. It is commonly used to treat anxiety disorders, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and other mental health conditions.
  2. Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT): DBT is a type of therapy that combines cognitive-behavioral techniques with mindfulness practices. It is often used to treat borderline personality disorder (BPD), as well as other conditions such as depression and anxiety.
  3. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR): EMDR is a type of therapy that can be helpful for individuals who have experienced trauma. It involves the use of eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation to help the person process traumatic memories and emotions.
  4. Family therapy: Family therapy is a type of therapy that involves working with the entire family to address issues that may be impacting family dynamics. It can be helpful for a wide range of issues, including communication problems, conflict, and mental health conditions.
  5. Interpersonal therapy (IPT): IPT is a type of therapy that focuses on improving interpersonal relationships and communication skills. It is often used to treat depression, anxiety, and other mental health conditions.
  6. Mindfulness-based therapies: Mindfulness-based therapies, such as mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) or mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT), involve learning mindfulness techniques to help regulate emotions, reduce stress, and increase awareness of the present moment. These therapies can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and PTSD.
  7. Psychodynamic therapy: Psychodynamic therapy focuses on exploring unconscious patterns and beliefs that may be contributing to emotional difficulties. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and personality disorders.
  8. Schema therapy: Schema therapy is a type of therapy that focuses on identifying and changing deeply ingrained, negative patterns of thinking and behavior. It is often used to treat personality disorders, such as borderline personality disorder.
  9. Solution-focused brief therapy (SFBT): SFBT is a type of therapy that focuses on identifying and building on the client’s strengths and resources to help them achieve their goals. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, as well as for individuals who are seeking personal growth and development.
  1. Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT): ACT is a type of therapy that focuses on helping individuals to accept difficult thoughts and feelings, and to commit to behaviors that align with their values. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and chronic pain.
  2. Art therapy: Art therapy involves using art materials and creative expression as a way to promote healing and self-discovery. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including trauma, depression, and anxiety.
  3. Dance/movement therapy: Dance/movement therapy involves using movement and dance as a way to promote emotional, cognitive, and physical integration. It can be helpful for individuals with a wide range of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and trauma.
  4. Equine-assisted therapy: Equine-assisted therapy involves working with horses as a way to promote emotional, cognitive, and behavioral healing. It can be helpful for individuals with a wide range of mental health conditions, including anxiety, depression, and PTSD.
  5. Group therapy: Group therapy involves working with a group of individuals who share similar concerns or challenges. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and addiction.
  6. Narrative therapy: Narrative therapy involves exploring and reshaping the stories that individuals tell about themselves and their experiences. It can be helpful for a wide range of mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, and trauma.

Again, it’s important to note that there are many different types of therapy available, and what works best for one person may not work as well for another. It’s always a good idea to consult with a mental health professional to determine what type of therapy is most appropriate for your individual needs and circumstances.

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Q & A – What type of therapy does a GWC need?

Recovering from parental alienation as a grown adult child can be a complex and challenging process. The type of therapy that is most appropriate will depend on the individual needs and circumstances of the person.

Here are some types of therapy that may be beneficial for an adult child recovering from parental alienation:

  1. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT): CBT is a type of therapy that focuses on changing negative thought patterns and behaviors. It can help an adult child recovering from parental alienation to identify and challenge negative beliefs about themselves, their parents, and their relationships, and to develop healthy coping skills.
  2. Family therapy: Family therapy can be particularly helpful for an adult child recovering from parental alienation, as it can provide a safe and neutral space for the family to explore and address the underlying issues that led to the alienation. Family therapy can also help to rebuild trust and repair damaged relationships.
  3. Eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR): EMDR is a type of therapy that can be helpful for individuals who have experienced trauma. It involves the use of eye movements or other forms of bilateral stimulation to help the person process traumatic memories and emotions.
  4. Psychodynamic therapy: Psychodynamic therapy focuses on exploring unconscious patterns and beliefs that may be contributing to emotional difficulties. It can help an adult child recovering from parental alienation to gain insight into the root causes of their feelings and behaviors.
  5. Mindfulness-based therapies: Mindfulness-based therapies, such as mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) or mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT), can be helpful for individuals recovering from trauma. These therapies involve learning mindfulness techniques to help regulate emotions, reduce stress, and increase awareness of the present moment.

Ultimately, the best type of therapy for an adult child recovering from parental alienation will depend on their individual needs and preferences. It may be helpful to work with a therapist who has experience in working with individuals who have experienced parental alienation and who can provide a safe and supportive environment for the healing process.